Our deepest fear is not that we're inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It is not just some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

- coach carter

Friday, February 11, 2011

Heart Day

    It's that time of year folks. Florist are upping their prices, teddy bears with hearts all over them, jewlers are making sales,  chocolates in heart shaped boxes.. Can you guest what I'm talking about? You got it, it's Valentine's Day!
    What is the purpose of Valentine's Day? We celebrate love and affection with our significant others. We go out and buy roses, chocolate, jewlerry, some type of present to commemorate this day. We make plans with our companions to do something special on this February 14 night. But realistically, Valentine's Day is just like any other day. Why should we emphasize the love we have for someone on this day? Why do we have a set day once a year to express our feelings to someone we care about?
      If you have to buy presents to express your love for someone, than obviously that love isn't very strong. Yes, it is nice to have that one night when you can dress up and have a romantic dinner, but if you are only having romantic nights once a year, then something is wrong with your relationship. Being in a relationship shouldn't be about getting presents, it should be about expressing your love for one another on an every day basis, not just Valentine's Day.
    The social expectations that this holiday has brought to men in the world is astonishing. So much pressure is put upon them to plan the ideal day. Men have the stress of arranging the perfect date, buying the perfect gift, spending enough money. But what do women have to worry about? Oh that's right, women worry about their men planning the perfect night, buying the perfect gift, proving his love for her. This day isn't all about you ladies! Are you going to be worrying about buying the perfect gift for your man? Are you out there making reservations and organizing your night? No. So before you give your guy heck for not putting enough effort into this useless holiday, think about how impractical you are being.
    There shouldn't be one set day to celebrate your love. Buy them gifts spontaneously. Tell them you love them every day. It's just a dense holiday for those women who need the satisfaction of knowing that their man loves them.
    I'm not saying to completly blow it off, sure buy some flowers, get some chocolate, have a good night together, but don't overdo it. It is just another normal night. So ladies, take a breath, just because your guy didn't go all out, doesn't mean he don't love you.


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